Sunday, October 28, 2012
Rabbis Delay NYC's Metzitzah B'Peh Regulations - Meanwhile, in Israel...
After looking the other way for the longest time, the New York City Health Department finally decided to do something to address the issue of orthodox mohels spreading herpes through the practice of oral suction after ritual circumcision, also known as "metzitzah b'peh."
Or, at least, do something to look busy.
What did the New York City Health Department do to protect further boys from being infected?
They issued a mandate that would require parents to sign a consent form before allowing a mohel to perform metztizah b’peh on their sons.
According to Deputy Commissioner Jay K. Varma, the health commission would impose penalties at its own discretion. They would respond to public complaints and investigate the claims, (Because this has happened in the past? Do you seriously need a special law that requires parents to sign a waiver to do this?) and that repercussions could range from a phone call or a formal warning letter, to fines of up to $2,000 for each violation. (Again, when has this happened, and shouldn't this be standard procedure for ANY time a child is being put in danger? What happened in 2006 when Thomas Frieden was Health Commissioner?)
The mandate is basically worthless; there is no actual ban or regulation of metzitzah b'peh, and mohels would face no penalties whatsoever if the waivers were not signed. (I ask, what ultra-orthodox Jewish parent doesn't know the health implications of what is probably their most cherished religious tradition?)
But despite the new mandate being essentially impotent, ultra-orthodox rabbis were intolerant of what they see as an "unconstitutional, shocking governmental overreach." According to Rabbi William Handler, leader of Traditional Bris Milah, a self-proclaimed group formed to “protect Jewish ritual circumcision,” this mandate is "the first step in completely taking away traditional bris milah from the Jewish people in New York City.”
To prevent this mandate from taking effect, several rabbis and Jewish organizations, including Agudath Israel of America and the International Bris Association, filed a lawsuit at the Federal District Court in Manhattan. They accuse mayor Bloomberg of "blood libel," and the New York City Health Department of "trying to enforce erroneous opinions on the people of New York City." They claim the city lacks “any definitive proof” that metzitzah b’peh “poses health risks of any kind," despite the fact that the CDC found a total of 11 baby Jewish boys in NYC were infected with herpes.
Well, as they say, the squeaky wheel gets the grease, and it looks like the very vocal rabbis have gotten their wish.
New York City agreed to a brief stay in the enforcement of the above mandate, so that the plaintiffs who filed the lawsuit in Manhattan can submit a motion for a preliminary injunction.
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
AAP TRADESHOW INSIDER: "Listen to Intactivists" Says Sole Presenter on Circumcision
Intactivists already knew that the AAP would be hosting a pro-circumcision workshop at their 2012 tradeshow. Titled "Pros & Cons of Doing Circumcisions," it was described as a session that "aims to explain what
one needs to do in order to set up a program to do neonatal
circumcisions and how one can become an expert circumciser." (Here's a screenshot in case the latter gets taken down.)
Given the fact that the AAP had denied Intact America a booth on their tradeshow premises, nevermind the name and description of this workshop, nevermind the AAP's latest policy statement on infant circumcision, and nevermind their refusal to publish letters of opposition, Intactivists assumed the workshop speaker was going to toe the AAP party line on infant circumcision.
However Tweets from within AAP shindig say that something rather different from the workshop's description transpired. According to one Dr. Daniel Flanders:

Queried that this was hardly the message in the session's abstract, Dr. Flanders further Tweeted:
Challenged on his own views, he Tweeted:
Curiouser and curiouser...
Source: Circumstitions News
Given the fact that the AAP had denied Intact America a booth on their tradeshow premises, nevermind the name and description of this workshop, nevermind the AAP's latest policy statement on infant circumcision, and nevermind their refusal to publish letters of opposition, Intactivists assumed the workshop speaker was going to toe the AAP party line on infant circumcision.
However Tweets from within AAP shindig say that something rather different from the workshop's description transpired. According to one Dr. Daniel Flanders:

"Dr. Homsy: Those who oppose circumcision are conveying an important message and their voices should be heard."
Queried that this was hardly the message in the session's abstract, Dr. Flanders further Tweeted:
"I noticed that discrepancy as well. The lecture was not as described in the program. Focus was on medically necessary circ."
Challenged on his own views, he Tweeted:
"My personal views are irrelevant. Professionally, I do not do circumcisions."If I'm understanding correctly, the only presenter on circumcision at the AAP tradeshow, who was supposed to give a pro-circ message, ended up telling his audience they should listen to those protesting outside instead. And, instead of focusing on how to become a prolific mutilator of healthy children's genitals, he focused on medically necessary circumcision. (The only kind of circumcision intactivists believe should ever happen in non-consenting minors.)
Curiouser and curiouser...
Source: Circumstitions News
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
AAP TRADE SHOW 2012: What Went Down in N'Orleans
In earlier posts I wrote about how the AAP has effectively tried to silence critics of its latest position statement on infant circumcision. It has refused to publish letters of opposition, and it banned the presence of Intact America at their trade show in New Orleans.
In my last post, I wrote that, not satisfied with having kicked out Intact America, the AAP was trying to silence protesters outside of the facilities where they were having their get-together.
The details of what exactly went down are now available. (I first accessed them here.)
It should give readers an insight on the prevailing attitudes of the leadership at the AAP.
Intact America's very own Georgeanne Chapin recounts what happened first-hand:
In my last post, I wrote that, not satisfied with having kicked out Intact America, the AAP was trying to silence protesters outside of the facilities where they were having their get-together.
The details of what exactly went down are now available. (I first accessed them here.)
It should give readers an insight on the prevailing attitudes of the leadership at the AAP.
Intact America's very own Georgeanne Chapin recounts what happened first-hand:
Saturday, the second day of our protest, two AAP officials convened with police and security guards in front of the convention center. A couple of Intactivists were able to overhear some of the conversation. They asked the police if we could not be forced to leave the area. The police told them no, that we were marching on public property, and that we were breaking no laws.
I actually went up to the man, extended my hand, and introduced myself as Georgeanne Chapin, executive director of Intact America. He refused to shake my hand and said, "So what?"
I said I just wanted to introduce myself and I would like to know his name. He said, "I don't agree with anything you do or say," turned on his heel, and walked away.
We had the equivalent of an outdoor, public booth across from the Center; it was a streetcorner, next to an outdoor parking lot, which was next to a Marriott Hotel. On Friday, we had received permission from the lot owner to hang our "I Did Not Consent" banner, and other signs on the chain link fence.
Picture: Intact Lousiana
Around an hour after the AAP officials' unsuccessful attempt to get rid of us, the valet from the Marriott came and told us that the owner of the parking lot said we were trespassing and had to take the banner and signs down.
Dan Bollinger asked to speak with the owner who "didn't have time" to talk with us, but asked the valet if he could give us the guy's number. Dan called him (turns out it was the manager, not the owner), and had a very pleasant conversation, which ended in him agreeing to extend the permission for us to have the signs up for two more days. (We paid him a small fee.)
We are certain that the AAP also had complained to the Marriott, which is what sparked them to contact the parking lot manager (who clearly felt he didn't owe the AAP anything). Very nice. All of that said, we had some good conversations, and I felt that by being on the street rather than in the convention exhibit hall, we were free to say all the things we believe.
So there you have it.
Make of the details what you will.
Why do they refuse to publish letters of opposition?
Why did they ban Intact America from their trade show?
But most of all, why did they want have the protesters removed from the premises?
Going as far as trying to get NOPD to remove them from public property?
If the AAP is so confident in its new statement, then what is it so afraid of?
To me, these are the actions of guilty criminals squirming under the light of scrutiny.
The AAP has released a horrendously flawed statement they cannot actually substantiate, they know it, and they don't want to be confronted with anybody who can give them a run for their money.
Sooner or later something's gotta give.
They can't keep the truth hidden forever.
Make of the details what you will.
Why do they refuse to publish letters of opposition?
Why did they ban Intact America from their trade show?
But most of all, why did they want have the protesters removed from the premises?
Going as far as trying to get NOPD to remove them from public property?
If the AAP is so confident in its new statement, then what is it so afraid of?
To me, these are the actions of guilty criminals squirming under the light of scrutiny.
The AAP has released a horrendously flawed statement they cannot actually substantiate, they know it, and they don't want to be confronted with anybody who can give them a run for their money.
Sooner or later something's gotta give.
They can't keep the truth hidden forever.
Sunday, October 21, 2012
AAP TRADE SHOW 2012: Silencing Dissent - First the Booth, Now the Protest
In my last post, I wrote about how the AAP decided to kick out the intactivist organization Intact America from within their 2012 trade show. I speculated that the AAP made this decision because they saw Intact America as a threat.
Kicking out Intact America from their 2012 trade show wouldn't have been their only attempt at silencing dissent; the AAP has taken the liberty of taking down, and refusing to publish moderate, referenced, well-researched letters in opposition on their website.
Now, it appears, the AAP is trying to silence dissent outside of their trade show. Intactivists have managed to launch a small, but very vocal protest outside of the facilities where the AAP is hosting their trade exhibition, and the AAP is trying to get them shut down.
Intactivist Protesters Outside of the 2012 AAP Trade Show
It is now ever clear that the AAP has made a huge mistake, they know it, and they are feeling the burn. It is now clear that self-serving forces with an agenda are working from within the AAP to silence dissent. They are intimidated by intactivists and terrified of the truth; their actions of fear and apprehension prove it.
“Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.”~Buddha
"Truth suppress'd, whether by courts or crooks, will find an avenue to be told."
~Sheila Steele
"You can fool some people, some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time."
~Unknown
The AAP is mistaken if it thinks they can hide the truth from everyone. They may withhold letters of opposition, and kick out groups they do not like from their trade shows, but they WILL NOT SILENCE US.
SHAME ON YOU, AAP.
Saturday, October 13, 2012
SILENCING DISSENT: AAP Bans Intact America from Trade Show
I had already addressed the AAP silencing dissent following the release of their latest policy statement on circumcision. Letters of criticism that took their latest statement apart were either withdrawn from their website, if not never even published. We know that there are letters that do not appear on the AAP website because a number of human rights activists published them openly. They can be read here.
And now, as if taking down or withholding letters of dissent, weren't enough, the AAP has decided to prohibit Intact America from having a booth inside their trade show happening in New Orleans, even after four straight years of exhibiting.
In contrast, they will host a workshop titled "Pros & Cons of Doing Circumcisions," which is described as follows: "This session aims to explain what one needs to do in order to set up a program to do neonatal circumcisions and how one can become an expert circumciser." (Here's a screenshot in case the latter gets taken down.)
My only guess is that the AAP is clearly intimidated by Intact America, because they are able to take apart their latest policy statement and call them out on their ulterior motives. The AAP knows their latest policy statement is horrendously flawed, and they are terrified to let Intact America speak on the matter, because they don't want to be confronted with the truth.
The extent to which the AAP is going to silence intactivism shows just how terrified they are of our message, how weak their position actually is, and how inept they are at defending it.
How You Can Help
The AAP may have kicked Intact America out of their trade show, but they are not going to stop intactivists from protesting outside the convention center that weekend. You can still help Intact America make an impact in New Orleans by donating to them. Your donation will help Intact America stage a major press conference and demonstration, produce and distribute educational materials to thousands of pediatricians, and place Open Letters in the New Orleans Times Picayune.
Help our voice be heard!
Saturday, September 29, 2012
The Cologne Ruling and the Limitations of Religious Freedom
"For the right to circumcise little boys."
I had been holding off writing about the ruling in Cologne, Germany, mostly because there have already been other excellent writings covering this landmark ruling, but also because circumcision laws simply aren't too exciting for me. The outcome is simply too predictable, with Jews playing the anti-Semite card and governments bending or outright ignoring their own laws and defying all logic and reason, not to mention the whole of modern medicine, to appease them.
This had already happened before, where lawmakers in San Francisco had to invoke an obscure law that allowed veterinarians to declaw cats, and California senators had to write a law making claims that defy the whole of modern medicine in order to "protect" the practice, and ultimately quell the anger of Jews and Muslims who defend it for "religious reasons." Fighting the law on "medical grounds" allowed lawmakers to circumvent the minefield of "religious freedom" and "parental choice," where it could be argued that female circumcision, and other abusive practices on minors, could be allowed.
As in San Francisco, I wasn't holding my breath regarding Germany; I knew that one way or another, the law had to be overturned, especially in Germany, where their Nazi past makes them particularly vulnerable to accusations of anti-Semitism, and leaders do whatever it is in their power to keep their record "clean," as it were. Back in July, Germany's lower house of parliament passed a resolution to strike down the Cologne ruling, and now a new law sanctioning infant circumcision has finally been drafted. It flies in the face of Germany's Basic Law, but I suppose German lawmakers see this as a necessary lapse in German law.
Circumcision in Germany vs. Circumcision in the US
Here is the problem; in America, circumcision is a practice that has been deeply ingrained in our culture. Even though the infant circumcision rate has dropped from about 90% in the 80's, to about 56% today according to the CDC, American males remain circumcised at large, approximately 80% of all US males having been circumcised in infancy. It is easy for a large group of circumcised lawmakers and legislators to look the other way, and/or prop up claims of "medical benefits," however poorly supported they may be. Who wants to believe that they were mutilated? That their parents allowed a charlatan to profit from them at their own expense? Or worse, that they allowed something dreadful to happen to their own children? A predisposition to view circumcision in a positive light makes it difficult to question the practice of infant circumcision.
The case is different in Germany, and other countries where circumcision is rare, limited only to religious groups, or surgical treatment that is genuinely warranted. The same predisposition in favor of circumcision doesn't exist, and it is viewed mostly as any other surgery, performed only when absolutely necessary, and I say "mostly" because up until the Cologne ruling, Germans still had to look the other way when it comes to the circumcision of infants as it is performed by Jews and Muslims.
While the male population in Germany remains anatomically correct at large, and while unlike American medical institutions the Germans don't buy into the so-called "benefits" of circumcision, Germany still bears the burden of its Nazi past, and they have other reasons for wanting to circumvent the issue, where giving the practice of the forced circumcision of minors the scrutiny that it deserves is tantamount to "anti-Semitism."
Cologne Court Ruling is Accurate
The court in Cologne ruled that circumcising a child that is not of age, without any medical indication, constitutes bodily harm, and that circumcising healthy minors is punishable by law. Predictably, Jewish and Muslim groups expressed outrage, rejected the idea that circumcising a healthy, non-consenting minor constitutes bodily harm, and insisted that the new ruling was an infringement on their "religious freedom" and "parental rights." Appealing to compassion and sympathy, some have said the new law was an insensitive and mean-spirited attack on German Jews.
The "outrage" and claims of "insensitivity" seem to serve the purpose of drawing attention away from the case responsible for causing the court in Cologne to rule as they had. Authorities in Cologne didn't wake up one day and decide "today is a good day to antagonize Jews and Muslims."
It must be asked, what was the case, and who did it involve? What could cause the court in Cologne to issue such a controversial ruling?
The case
did not even involve a Jewish mohel circumcising a child. The case involved a four-year-old boy who nearly hemorrhaged to death. His parents, being Muslim,
had asked a Muslim physician to perform the surgery which resulted in serious complications.
A doctor's letter says that the boy was brought to a children's emergency room
by his mother two days after his circumcision, as the bleeding would not stop.
Apparently a "urological surgical revision" of the circumcision
"under general anesthesia" followed, after which the boy spent
several days in a children's ward. Three dressing changes had taken place
"under anesthesia." According to the doctor's letter, the exposed
surface and the glans penis was "uneven, eroded, and fibrinous
occupied". The boy spent days ten days in clinical treatment.
The
Cologne district court was aware of the medical details, but they were not made
public at the time. One reviewer, who had been commissioned by the Cologne
Regional Court had attested to the physician who performed the circumcision,
that the intervention had been "carried out in accordance with the rules
of medical science." According to the experts, bleeding is a possible
complication of circumcision.
And yet,
despite all of this this, Social Democratic legislator Christine Lambrecht has
the nerve to insist that "Genital mutilation has nothing to do with the
circumcision of boys." The fact that a boy suffered complications and that he is left with a permanently disfigured member for the rest of his life is not as important as the "outrage" Jewish and Muslim groups have expressed at the German court for calling a spade a spade.
While
religious groups express despairing cursing rage, and Germans concerned with
their political image sympathize with
them, it's cases like these German courts have to work with. Yes,
unless there is a pressing medical need (there was clearly none here), the
circumcision of healthy, non-consenting minors constitutes bodily harm, and
those who engage in the practice ought to face charges, as they are placing
children at risks, such as the hemorrhaging the boy in this case suffered.
Something that I find interesting is how news outlets and opponents of the Cologne ruling insist that it has caused "legal uncertainty." But "uncertainty" for whom? Certainly not for German lawmakers and interpreters of those laws. German Basic law is already quite clear where it says:
Grundgesetz / Basic Law: [Human dignity]
[Personal freedoms]
[Equality before the law]
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The fact of the matter is that, actually, up until the Cologne ruling, doctors in Germany who circumcised boys for purely religious reasons without medical necessity, acted within a legal gray area. Until recently, they could claim to have no knowledge of the criminality of performing religious rituals. Even if a court accepted the case later as personal injury, the doctor had to be acquitted due to this fluke in the law. Rather than "uncertainty," the Cologne ruling actually establishes legal clarity for the first time in Germany, by eliminating this possibility.
The "uncertainty" the Cologne ruling creates is in the minds of those who wish to continue to defend and conduct infant circumcisions; it is to those who wish to continue carrying out dubious practices under the law that clear and precise wording causes "uncertainty."
The laws could not be made more clear. Forced circumcision on minors is bodily harm, and, as evidenced by the very case on which this ruling was based, it puts them in danger, even when carried out by "professionals" under "medical conditions." Unless there is a clear and compelling medical reason to conduct circumcision on a minor, the professional is engaging in professional misconduct, not to mention violating the rights of that individual, and should be held punishable by the law. Physicians profiting from any other surgery on non-consenting minors would face charges of charlatanism and medical fraud.
It is creating an exception to the rules that govern all other areas of medicine which cause ambiguity and uncertainty. German lawmakers seem determined to recreate the legal gray area that the Cologne ruling abolished, to appease religious groups.
Clarity in America
In America, infant circumcision has no legal standing either:
The 1st Amendment states clearly:
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.
The 14th Amendment says:
No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
Permitting the circumcision of healthy, non-consenting infants violates the free exercise of religion, which includes the immunity from having a religion forced upon one's self, the freedom of speech of children, not to mention the right to their own bodies and self-determination, and the right for them to petition the Government for a redress of grievances, should any of them grow up to resent what was done to them. It abridges the freedom of speech of those wishing to them.
The U.S. Female Genital Mutilation Act already defies the 14th Amendment, as it affords protection from genital cutting to only one sex. Furthermore, the institution of a law that protects "religious and parental rights" places the federal ban on female genital cutting on shaky ground, because for better or for worse, it too infringes on "religious and parental rights."
There is a long line of US Supreme Court cases that place limits on what parents can inflict upon their children. One such case is Prince v. Massachusetts. The Court stated, "Parental authority is not absolute and can be permissibly restricted if doing so is in the interests of a child's welfare." The following assertions can be found in the majority opinion written for the above case:
"...neither the rights of religion nor the rights of parenthood are beyond limitation…The right to practice religion freely does not include the right to expose the community or the child to communicable disease or the latter to ill-health or death...
Parents may be free to become martyrs themselves. But it does not follow they are free, in identical circumstances, to make martyrs of their children before they have reached the age of full and legal discretion when they can make that choice for themselves."
As clear as the law is, there is no need to make a special law, as the majority of Americans are in agreement that this is one area in law, courts can simply look the other way and scrutinize no further than "it's my religion" or "it's my right as a parent."
So what are German politicians to do?
German politicians who want to keep good relations with Jews and Muslims are stuck between a rock and a hard place. On the one hand, they've got the laws of their country to respect and uphold. On the other, they've got accusations of anti-Semitism to fend off. So what are they to do?
Back in July, Germany's lower house of parliament vowed to strike down the Cologne ruling. They sat and brainstormed on what laws they could create, what laws they could amend, in order to make the circumcision of healthy, non-consenting minors in the name of "religion" legally acceptable. This would be a difficult task, as they cannot write a law that stands in clear opposition to German Basic Law, which protects all citizens equally from forced non-therapeutic amputations.
Creating a special law that sanctions the religious practice of genital mutilation on healthy, non-consenting minors might clear up the "uncertainty" for those who adhere to the practice, but it would muck up the waters legally for Germany. A dangerous precedent would be established that religious groups could then use to argue that it is their "religious right" to be performing genital cutting rituals in girls. Adherers of Islam could be excused for slashing their children's heads open on their holy day of Ashura. As long as Germany is passing laws that favor religious groups, they may as well be asked to enact Sharia Law.
Father slicing his child's head on the day of Ashura.
So how do German lawmakers plan on getting past their own Basic Law?
"Medicine"
Yes, that's right; it's almost as if San Francisco were repeating itself all over again. The rule of thumb seems to be, "When you can't win an argument, change the subject."
Law makers know that establishing a law that "protects" the "religious circumcision" of infants would land them in even more "uncertainty" than before, so, citing the latest AAP policy statement (they couldn't cite German medical organizations, because unlike the AAP, they don't buy the "benefits" line) they've decided to draft a law that would protect the "parental consent" of so-called "medical circumcision."
The solution of German lawmakers cannot be to establish a special law that "protects" religious practices, because this would be in direct opposition to Basic Law, so their solution was to circumvent the religious argument and recreate the gray area that the Cologne law abolished by willing into law that circumcision is a legit "medical choice," they way Mike Gatto did in California. You can see the details of the new law here.
*NOTE: The new AAP statement says that "the benefits [of circumcision] outweigh the risks," but it still says that they are "not enough to recommend circumcision." It should strike the reader as odd that American parents are being asked to consider "benefits" that a major medical organization could not use to recommend the practice, and somehow make a better judgement than the AAP itself.
Readers should take note of both the political slight of hand, and the self-contradicting tap dance happening here:
- The court in Cologne reached its decision after a four year old boy, and others before him, suffered severe complications, despite the fact that his circumcision was carried out in a medical setting.
- The ruling caused outrage in Jewish and Muslim groups who see it as an infringement on their "religious freedom," which German lawmakers have vowed to protect legally.
- The solution is to talk about "potential medical benefits," this DESPITE the fact that a child suffered life-long complications, which triggered the Cologne ruling in the first place.
In America too, it seems courts medical boards prefer to minimize or completely ignore the risks and complications of the circumcision of healthy, non-consenting minors, be it in a "religious" or "clinical" setting. The last few years have seen law suits raised against both mohels and doctors who cut the glanses off the penises of Jewish and gentile children. In one particular incident, a New York rabbi gave herpes to three Jewish babies, one of whom died, by way of the ultra-orthodox practice of sucking on a child's wounded penis (AKA metzitzah b'peh), bringing the practice into question. Circumcision botches are so common that there are doctors that specialize in circumcision corrections.
But nevermind that! And nevermind the laws that govern our country, which already outlaw the forced genital mutilation of minors. Let's consider the myriad of speculative "benefits" that neither warrant surgery (as there is already less invasive, more effective treatment that affords those same benefits), nor concern a healthy, non-consenting child, and that no medical organization in the industrialized world, not even the AAP, could use to endorse the practice.
Conclusion
If this proposed new law is passed, it will serve as a third, perhaps even fourth precedent in the history of intactivism.
Let it be clear, that it is not possible to legally defend the forced genital mutilation of minors on the grounds of "religious freedom" or "parental choice," as this defies the basic laws of industrialized nations which guarantee justice, equality, and protection for all.
For this reason, politicians and other advocates of "religious freedom" must grope for pseudo-medical rationale to defend the deplorable practice of the forced genital mutilation of healthy, non-consenting minors.
Is this about medicine, or about protecting cherished traditions?
In time, the argument of "potential medical benefits" too, will be seen as a fallacious argument in the justification of the forced genital mutilation of healthy, non-consenting minors.
Genital mutilation, whether it be wrapped in culture, religion or “research” is still genital mutilation.Closing Remarks
It is mistaken, the belief that the right amount of “science” and "medical benefits" can be used to legitimize the deliberate violation of basic human rights.
Even if this new law passes, intactivists should not despair; those that do should have seen it coming. We shouldn't despair when politicians with agendas change the laws to attract voters. Laws don't change anything. They never do. In a social movement, laws are the very last thing to change. What we need to work on is changing people's attitudes. Female circumcision was swimmingly outlawed because our country already viewed the practice with disdain. History shows us that laws reflect social change, not bring it about. And, it looks like, judging by news articles and reports, the fact that more and more people are openly talking about the practice, the very fact that it's being questioned in courts, change is already happening.
DISCLAIMER:
The views I express in this blog are my own individual opinion, and they do not necessarily reflect the views of all intactivists. I am but an individual with one opinion, and I do not pretend to speak for the intactivist movement as a whole, thank you.
~Joseph4GI
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
GRANOLA BABIES: Responses to "Celebratory" Ad
Since Granola Babies posted an inflammatory ad on Facebook, people have tried responding in different ways. While defenders of Granola Babies and their ad claim that their message was not meant to be inflammatory, and that all they've seen since posting the ad were "judgment" and "personal attacks," even gentle responses questioning the ad have been deleted, and some people have been outright banned for kindly and non-judgmentally suggesting the ad could send the wrong message. Granola Babies is not letting the other side be heard, silencing any dissenting views, which was the whole reason for my previous post.
Granola Babies has made it clear that they are not going to allow anyone to contradict them, and play the victim card to try and gain sympathy and corroboration from others, so intactivists have taken it upon themselves to publish the fact on their own blogs, and/or creating parodies of the Granola Babies ad themselves. (You've already seen mine.) Within the past twenty-four hours there have been a few recreations of the ad. A compilation of them can be seen on the Facebook group Saving Our Sons.
In this post I will share some of my favorites.
Given the fact that the name "Granola Babies" gives the impression that it's a crunchy group, the ad should have looked like this:
Among co-sleeping and breastfeeding, circumcision is a non-sequitur, beginning with the fact that co-sleeping and breastfeeding do not involve bodily mutilation. Furthermore, it is usually parents who co-sleep and breastfeed who are constantly having to justify themselves and find refuge among the crunchy crowd. Parents who circumcise don't have to work very hard to find support from their family members, their doctors, the news media etc. Just check out major parenting forums like CafeMom. To be more accurate, Granola Babies should have included "He is circumcised." with "My baby will never sleep with us.", "I let him cry it out."and "I exclusively bottle feed her."
It's interesting that advocates of Granola Babies and their ad say that intactivists have been nothing but "judgmental" and "attacking." It seems while any criticism of circumcision is misconstrued and exaggerated as a "judgmental attack," crunchy moms who choose leave their boys intact have to endure comments like "You didn't circumcise him? Ew, gross!" Or "He'll never get laid." The same people that utter these comments will turn around and say "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS! WE'RE THE PARENTS, WE DECIDE! DON'T YOU DARE JUDGE ME!" if you suggest there's anything wrong with circumcision.
It's parents who choose to leave their children intact who have to take the heat, and who find refuge in crunchy groups. Parents who circumcise their children do not have to work hard to find the support for their "decisions" that they need. Most parenting forums will go as far as deleting any comment that has anything bad to say about circumcision, as thoughtful and constructive as it may be, in order to pander to moms and dads that circumcise. But for whatever reason, Granola Babies thought it is parents who circumcise their children who deserve a break.
It was easy to spot the non-sequitur here, wasn't it.
Somehow, I don't think female circumcision is a "parental choice" Granola Babies is willing to "celebrate."
I ask, do parents who "choose" to circumcise their daughters love their children more, or less than parents who "choose" to circumcise their boys?
This is probably Granola Babies' ad at the most basic level. They are a business after all. Pandering to mothers who chose to circumcise their boys and making them feel entitled for the sake of gaining their business will probably have been the worst business decision they ever made.
Up until now, the responses have been sarcastic and vengeful. But let's take a look at a different response. This one, on the Saving Our Sons Facebook page seems to be the most liked:
I couldn't agree more.
Granola Babies has made it clear that they are not going to allow anyone to contradict them, and play the victim card to try and gain sympathy and corroboration from others, so intactivists have taken it upon themselves to publish the fact on their own blogs, and/or creating parodies of the Granola Babies ad themselves. (You've already seen mine.) Within the past twenty-four hours there have been a few recreations of the ad. A compilation of them can be seen on the Facebook group Saving Our Sons.
In this post I will share some of my favorites.
Given the fact that the name "Granola Babies" gives the impression that it's a crunchy group, the ad should have looked like this:
Originally posted on the Facebook group End Routine Infant Circumcision (4ERIC).
Among co-sleeping and breastfeeding, circumcision is a non-sequitur, beginning with the fact that co-sleeping and breastfeeding do not involve bodily mutilation. Furthermore, it is usually parents who co-sleep and breastfeed who are constantly having to justify themselves and find refuge among the crunchy crowd. Parents who circumcise don't have to work very hard to find support from their family members, their doctors, the news media etc. Just check out major parenting forums like CafeMom. To be more accurate, Granola Babies should have included "He is circumcised." with "My baby will never sleep with us.", "I let him cry it out."and "I exclusively bottle feed her."
It's interesting that advocates of Granola Babies and their ad say that intactivists have been nothing but "judgmental" and "attacking." It seems while any criticism of circumcision is misconstrued and exaggerated as a "judgmental attack," crunchy moms who choose leave their boys intact have to endure comments like "You didn't circumcise him? Ew, gross!" Or "He'll never get laid." The same people that utter these comments will turn around and say "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS! WE'RE THE PARENTS, WE DECIDE! DON'T YOU DARE JUDGE ME!" if you suggest there's anything wrong with circumcision.
It's parents who choose to leave their children intact who have to take the heat, and who find refuge in crunchy groups. Parents who circumcise their children do not have to work hard to find the support for their "decisions" that they need. Most parenting forums will go as far as deleting any comment that has anything bad to say about circumcision, as thoughtful and constructive as it may be, in order to pander to moms and dads that circumcise. But for whatever reason, Granola Babies thought it is parents who circumcise their children who deserve a break.
It was easy to spot the non-sequitur here, wasn't it.
Somehow, I don't think female circumcision is a "parental choice" Granola Babies is willing to "celebrate."
I ask, do parents who "choose" to circumcise their daughters love their children more, or less than parents who "choose" to circumcise their boys?
This is probably Granola Babies' ad at the most basic level. They are a business after all. Pandering to mothers who chose to circumcise their boys and making them feel entitled for the sake of gaining their business will probably have been the worst business decision they ever made.
Up until now, the responses have been sarcastic and vengeful. But let's take a look at a different response. This one, on the Saving Our Sons Facebook page seems to be the most liked:
Perhaps this is what advocates of Granola Babies claim their ad was going for?
It's been pointed out to me on this very blog and in other mediums that there are mothers who have come to regret having had their sons circumcised. These mothers will have circumcised their sons because they actually thought was best for them. The fact that they come to regret a decision they made, and admit that they were wrong shows how much they love their sons, and how open minded they are to new information .
But this isn't about that.
I've said it in my last blog post, but I can't blame parents that "chose" to circumcise their sons. I think most parents have the best intentions for their children at heart, even parents that chose to circumcise their children. I asked in my last post, what parent would NOT choose to circumcise their child, having heard from doctors the horrors that would befall him were he not?
Some blame parents still; in my minds eye, parents are given information by the doctors they trust, and doctors take advantage of this trust to profit at their children's expense. "This is the age of information," some say. "Any parent could look up this information and come to the conclusion that circumcision is something they do not want to do to their kids." But why should they trust what they find on the internet over the authoritative "advice" from the doctors they trust?
Whose responsibility is it to know better? Who wields the knife? Who waives their credentials about insisting everybody call them "doctor?" Who went to school for 10 years or so to earn their degree? Whose professional responsibility is it to KNOW better? But somehow when it comes to circumcision they're suddenly "too stupid to know," and parents must weigh the "evidence" ("evidence" which no medical organization in the world can use to recommend circumcision by the way...) and come up with their own conclusion as to whether a surgical procedure their DOCTOR is offering them for their child is medically necessary or not?
In my opinion, it's not parents who are to blame; it is the doctors who take advantage of parental naivete and the bloated sense of entitlement they help stoke. A parent can look up all the information, but most do not know how to discern it, not to mention it is a doctor's professional responsibility to know better; it's why he gets paid the big bucks. It is medical fraud that a doctor can get away with placing the onus of "the big decision," one that cannot actually exist without medical or clinical indication, on parents, in order to absolve himself from the responsibility of a surgical procedure HE PERFORMS and should thus KNOWS BETTER than parents as to whether it is medically necessary or not.
It is a mistake to attack and humiliate parents over something they honestly didn't know any better about, and who would take it all back if they knew what they were doing to their children.
I'm not advocating that.
But I also do not advocate corroberating with parents, rewarding willful ignorance, making them feel justified and entitled by calling circumcision a "choice" to be "celebrated."
This ad comes off as pandering to parents who circumcised their children in order to gain their confidence and business, all at the expense of children's basic human rights, and it's why it is so infuriating to me.
EDIT:
Saw this in my Facebook news feed today and I thought I'd add it:
One of the comments (in response to other Facebook users who expressed disgust) read:
"I
am stunned that people are missing the irony in this photo; no one
advocates circumcising girls, but people seem to think of circumcising
boys as an acceptable ”option” in parental decision making. By
switching the sexes around this picture shows our cultural blindness to
the brutality of male circumcision, the same cultural blindness that
parents in countries that circumcise females also have."
I couldn't agree more.
DISCLAIMER:
The views I express in this blog are my own
individual opinion, and they do not necessarily reflect the views of all
intactivists. I am but an individual with one opinion, and I do not
pretend to speak for the intactivist movement as a whole, thank you.
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